I will not get political, but with all the wrangling going on among ALL of them & so many who criticize and/or support, I will say this much.....
One thing is for sure, they (and we) have a LOT of opportunities to change the way things have always been done. Though they (nor anyone for that matter, including ourselves) cannot change what has already been done by others (or ourselves); comparing to a wrong action, then doing likewise, DOES NOT make our action right. Learning from a wrong action & then doing it differently to make it right does. ..... This is what we teach our children. Don't excuse their actions by telling us 'how or what' Johnny down the street did before; but instead, do the right thing now, show us you have learned from previous mistakes or wrong doings.
It makes no difference what anyone has done in the past, we cannot change that. BUT a difference will be made if you (or we) show what you think should have been done, & then DO IT ! ! ! ! ! !
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
Those closest to you!
Often we overlook those who are closest to us. Your spouse, children, siblings, parents.
In 2007 my husband had a massive heart attack, before this we basically had a good marriage of 25 years. It was very routine, nothing special, very complacent. Since that time we have taken to doing date nights. Building memories, instead of 'I wish we had.....s'. In observing the disasters all around us, we are praying not only for relief, safety, and that they are able to find their loved ones; but also that they have no regrets that add to their burden.
Sure relationships don't always come easy, in fact a good marriage is often very hard, but rewarding work. Yup, just like a job...it takes effort, initiative, teamwork, & often times, stepping back to let the other shine. Encouragement & compassion are also key parts. There have been many occasions when I did not LIKE my hubby, still loved him; but definitely did not like him. I know that he has also felt this way about me; but these are those times when we grew stronger in our determination to succeed & not just give up. Saying I had enough! I won't say that there are not times in a marriage where this is the step that needs to be taken, just not in ours. We worked through some really tough, & touchy times. That is something that each has to work out for themselves; but we have way to much invested to cash it in now.
One of our changes has been dating. We try to take in a movie or some other outing at least once a month. There are free 'concerts in the park', zoos, museums, any number of items. When going on a long drive, we pack a picnic lunch instead of a restaurant. At least twice a year there are fancier mystery dates. One I arrange, the other he does. These involve doing something the other is especially fond of, even though it may not be my/or his fave.
He arranged for a dinner/play for me. He even put a suit on, wow that was different. He reserved the table right at the stage, it was fabulous. I surprised him with a trip to the race track. I take my knitting, it goes everywhere & enjoy the expression on his face (no I did not take it to the play, though it does go to the movies). He thinks it odd if my knitting is not out, though some places it is just not the right thing.
My point here, is we need to also make a difference at home. Call your sister/brother...go to lunch. Take your child out, show them how a date should act, show them they are so special. Take your mom/dad for dinner & to a favorite place. Make a difference at home, & that difference will spread out & show others how they to can build memories, not 'I wish we had....s'
Praying for all whose lives have been changed by so much devastating weather...
;o)
In 2007 my husband had a massive heart attack, before this we basically had a good marriage of 25 years. It was very routine, nothing special, very complacent. Since that time we have taken to doing date nights. Building memories, instead of 'I wish we had.....s'. In observing the disasters all around us, we are praying not only for relief, safety, and that they are able to find their loved ones; but also that they have no regrets that add to their burden.
Sure relationships don't always come easy, in fact a good marriage is often very hard, but rewarding work. Yup, just like a job...it takes effort, initiative, teamwork, & often times, stepping back to let the other shine. Encouragement & compassion are also key parts. There have been many occasions when I did not LIKE my hubby, still loved him; but definitely did not like him. I know that he has also felt this way about me; but these are those times when we grew stronger in our determination to succeed & not just give up. Saying I had enough! I won't say that there are not times in a marriage where this is the step that needs to be taken, just not in ours. We worked through some really tough, & touchy times. That is something that each has to work out for themselves; but we have way to much invested to cash it in now.
One of our changes has been dating. We try to take in a movie or some other outing at least once a month. There are free 'concerts in the park', zoos, museums, any number of items. When going on a long drive, we pack a picnic lunch instead of a restaurant. At least twice a year there are fancier mystery dates. One I arrange, the other he does. These involve doing something the other is especially fond of, even though it may not be my/or his fave.
He arranged for a dinner/play for me. He even put a suit on, wow that was different. He reserved the table right at the stage, it was fabulous. I surprised him with a trip to the race track. I take my knitting, it goes everywhere & enjoy the expression on his face (no I did not take it to the play, though it does go to the movies). He thinks it odd if my knitting is not out, though some places it is just not the right thing.
My point here, is we need to also make a difference at home. Call your sister/brother...go to lunch. Take your child out, show them how a date should act, show them they are so special. Take your mom/dad for dinner & to a favorite place. Make a difference at home, & that difference will spread out & show others how they to can build memories, not 'I wish we had....s'
Praying for all whose lives have been changed by so much devastating weather...
;o)
Monday, March 21, 2011
Seasons
It is interesting to see how seasons change. Living in Wisconsin, ours are very evident and each has its own personality. Have you ever noticed how people also have seasons? Yup, it is quite evident if we take time to look.
I believe we also have days of sunshine, clouds, fog, rain, and down right blizzards. Take time to look around, do you see someone struggling? Could you share a wee bit of sunshine with them? Perhaps a kind word, a smile, or help carrying a package. Open a door, give up your seat on a bus or train? I bet if you gave it some thought, you could make a difference in someone's life.
I challenge all of us, to take the extra seconds today and each day, to spread a little sunshine. Then see how that sunshine can also brighten your own day.
Have a beautiful sun filled day, and if this day is a wee low for you.....here is a smile from me to you!! 8o)
I believe we also have days of sunshine, clouds, fog, rain, and down right blizzards. Take time to look around, do you see someone struggling? Could you share a wee bit of sunshine with them? Perhaps a kind word, a smile, or help carrying a package. Open a door, give up your seat on a bus or train? I bet if you gave it some thought, you could make a difference in someone's life.
I challenge all of us, to take the extra seconds today and each day, to spread a little sunshine. Then see how that sunshine can also brighten your own day.
Have a beautiful sun filled day, and if this day is a wee low for you.....here is a smile from me to you!! 8o)
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